tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2755215853816439022.post7579305689509973643..comments2023-04-01T02:13:28.710-06:00Comments on Knowing Your Roles: Out With the Old, In With the NewChelseahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11758779727189037412noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2755215853816439022.post-91982908548631217652012-05-16T01:50:08.499-06:002012-05-16T01:50:08.499-06:00I am intrigued by the idea of spousal punishment, ...I am intrigued by the idea of spousal punishment, but do you punish your husband too? I really do understand the idea of being spanked, and having it alleviate guilt since you "paid your dues" but surely, he makes mistakes as well? I am not judging, I am just curious.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2755215853816439022.post-46931790646041069582012-01-30T19:13:14.741-07:002012-01-30T19:13:14.741-07:00Anonymous,
I left boiled eggs on the stove top an...Anonymous,<br /><br />I left boiled eggs on the stove top and forgot about them. Burned the pan to a black charcoal and set off the smoke alarms. It wasn't my intent to almost burn the house down, but I did get spanked for it. <br /><br />I don't know if you are new to dd or not. It seems as if you might be (and forgive me if I am mistaken)but every one practices a little differently. Especially if you have lived this lifestyle for a while. Starting out you go a little easier and possibly lighter on the spankings. <br />Sorry, I don't know much about Taken in Hand and how it works.A Pleasing Womannoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2755215853816439022.post-64135125766963854432012-01-28T11:12:34.649-07:002012-01-28T11:12:34.649-07:00O.k. I'm trying to figure out why you would ge...O.k. I'm trying to figure out why you would get spanked for giving advice to a friend you were trying to help. Maybe I don't understand how this works, but i don't think my husband would or ever has punished for something like this. Sure if I intentionally was trying to hurt my friend, he may see the need. Clearly, that was not your intent.<br /><br />We follow the taken in hand forum, so maybe they are more different than I thought. But, i thought spankings were reserved for the more severe offenses or to be used more as a last resort when other things don't work. I am not getting spanked for every little thing. Are we misunderstanding the purpose of cdd?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2755215853816439022.post-40295958692603767582012-01-26T21:27:38.587-07:002012-01-26T21:27:38.587-07:00I'm glad you could share that, we all learn fr...I'm glad you could share that, we all learn from each other. My husband and I, we are always evolving and I sure don't like bad changes either- but our guys are just that good..lol.Stormyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16673792378276047115noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2755215853816439022.post-62502454493808330052012-01-25T16:18:07.415-07:002012-01-25T16:18:07.415-07:00Wow, Chels, this post was awesome. I know it is so...Wow, Chels, this post was awesome. I know it is sometimes hard for you to share this part of Dd on your blog, so I'm proud of you. You did a great job. I'm really glad your hubby was able to expiriment and make some adjustments to make things work better for the two of you. The feeling (that one you're supposed to get) does make a huge difference. It's such a little thing really,but such an important part of why we do this thing we do. I'm happy for you! :)His First Matehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11736498752779288368noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2755215853816439022.post-3707924651758208242012-01-25T12:58:14.398-07:002012-01-25T12:58:14.398-07:00thats the trick isnt it for our HOH to find what w...thats the trick isnt it for our HOH to find what works to change our behaviour. Thank you for sharing and well done to you two. HOpe you can keep up with your resolution - we all have weeks like that when we seem to nothing but get into trouble<br />love and hugs kiwi xxxkiwigirliegirlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07875041768284887283noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2755215853816439022.post-34329971656737962712012-01-25T02:25:11.898-07:002012-01-25T02:25:11.898-07:00I'm happy for you Chels! (and sympathetic, I g...I'm happy for you Chels! (and sympathetic, I get spanked like that a lot, lol, and I hate it). But yeah, it IS effective for me, a lot of times more than the longer ones! But shhh, don't tell my husband that...;)Kayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03055228106900399814noreply@blogger.com